7 Ways To Add Kindness To Your Personal Values

Making Kindness One of Your Personal Attributes

In our previous blog post, we wrote about kindness being a universal personal value.

Here are seven easy ways to add kindness to your personal values and to bring some additional kindness into the lives of others:

·         Share your knowledge and experiences with others through volunteer talks in schools and your community, or through free content you deliver via the Internet.

·         Donate used books, magazines, clothes, cookware, dishes, pots, and other items you rarely or never use (de-cluttering your home and your life is always a good feeling).

·         Provide assistance, comfort or food to those who need it the most, especially the homeless. Rather than toss unused food, bag it up and drive to an area where the homeless hang out or beg. Whenever you see a homeless or hungry person near a fast food outlet you are about to visit, add one healthy item to your order and hand it to that person as you walk to your car or drive away. The thanks you will receive will be well worth the extra few dollars you spend.

·         Help your neighbors with chores or watching their children so they can have a "date night" or just take some time from their own daily routines.

·         Make way for those who seem to be in a hurry, even if they appear rude or unfriendly. Perhaps they are dealing with a major personal or family issue, or maybe their work has them stressed. No sense in you getting stressed over their behavior. Better to step aside or allow them to rapidly pass you on the road. Who knows, you might actually be doing them a huge favor by letting them hurry on by.

·         Surprise your loved ones with notes of encouragement and appreciation. This works particularly well with pre-teenage children, who just love getting a surprised note of love, praise or encouragement from mom or dad in their packed lunches or hidden in their school books.

·         Actively engage introverts and shy people in small talk whenever you encounter them in hallways, elevators, stores, parties, or other public places. They often have great insights and a lot to say, if only asked and encouraged.  

Tomorrow we’ll give you eight more ideas on how to easily make kindness one of your personal attributes. 

This article is partially excerpted from the book Project You: Living A Determined Life, available in paperback and eBook formats at Amazon.