Shift Momentum By Changing Your Thoughts
You have the power to change. Whether you exercise
this power or not is up to you.
The remote control device for change is your
attitude. Understand that your attitude can be changed as readily as you change channels
on your television set. And like your TV, your attitude has many channels that
you can access: positive, negative,
playful, angry, flustered, becalmed, passionate, uncaring, optimistic,
pessimistic, nonchalant, excited, enthused, disdainful, lethargic, energized,
and many others.
When you use your remote to select a channel on
your television, you decide what you want to surround yourself with for a
period of time: soap operas, sports, news, crime shows, movies, music videos,
nature and wildlife, or whatever else interests you at the time.
The same is true when you consciously or
unconsciously select your attitude channel. This choice will determine what
messages you surround yourself with until you make another selection.
If you
have a negative attitude you will interpret the events of the day (i.e. traffic
jams, long lunch queues, interactions with most people) as negative
occurrences.
With a positive attitude you are more likely to turn these same
events into more uplifting situations, such as an unexpected time for thinking
or listening to your favorite songs (during the traffic jam), an opportunity to
explore a new cuisine or food outlet (when your regular eating place is
crowded) and chances to get to know others in a more meaningful and deeper way
(interactions with people).
The events will be the same. The only difference
will be your perspective and interpretation of the events, as influenced or
determined by your attitude. How you experience life is determined by your
attitude at the time events, people and situations pass through your life.
Here is how Groucho Marx approached his life, "Each morning when I open my eyes I say
to myself: I have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose
which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just
one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."
Another way to shift momentum is to open yourself
up to new experiences and possibilities. By opening your mind to new thoughts
and new ways of doing things, you create a fresh perspective and generate new
ideas on future possibilities and outcomes for yourself. The benefits of doing
so are well described by writer and thinker Roshanna S Evans:
"When your mind is open by
wonder it is a creative burst to the soul. You feel energized, excited, wildly
open to information yet to be formed in consciousness but rather at the
fingertips of your soul.
Anything less means we are
closed by belief, be it cultural, familial, emotional, or imaginative belief.
We feel physiologically restrained, limited, boxed in, uncertain, and less than
empowered."
Once you shift your momentum with positive thoughts and attitude, you will find it easier to move forward in your journey to Living A Determined Life.
This article is partially excerpted from the book Project You: Living A Determined Life, available in Kindle and paperback formats at Amazon.
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