Facing Challenges In Living A Determined Life

Problems Are Guaranteed to Pop Up Along Your Journey

In addition to the challenges of distractions, excuses, and personal procrastination, you are likely to have other hurdles and obstacles, some significant and some minor, along your road to change and self development.  

Author Mike Dooley, who sends out a wonderful daily email from "The Universe," has a great attitude about obstacles and hurdles. He writes, "The reason for all challenges is so that you can finally learn that none are bigger than you."

In a similar vein, William Mather Lewis, who served as President at both George Washington University and Lafayette College, said, "The abundant life does not come to those who have had a lot of obstacles removed from their path by others. It develops from within and is rooted in strong mental and moral fiber."

Yes, it would be nice to have smooth sailing and clear traffic lanes for each of our personal change projects. But that is simply not going to happen. 

The reality of life is that there are always going to be bumps, setbacks and unexpected problems that get in our way. Knowing this upfront, however, puts us in a better position to deal with these irritations when they arise.

Only a fool is blindly optimistic that everything will go along as planned and expected. While a problem free project may be occasionally experienced, it is by far the exception that confirms the rule. 

Anticipate problems and challenges as best you can, and prepare for the ones you have identified. Even if these do not come along exactly as anticipated, you will still be better prepared for the unexpected ones that do pop up and get in your way. 

Remember, growth comes from successfully overcoming obstacles and problems. Face these challenges head on and you will continue to move forward to the Determined Life you desire. 

This article is partially excerpted from the book Project You: Living A Determined Life, available at Amazon in Kindle and paperback formats.