Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 5, 2017

Mid-Year Resolutions. Now's the Time. | #MidYearResolutions

30-60-90 Day Personal Improvement Action Plan

Research shows that by the middle of the year over 50% of all New Year’s Resolutions have been dropped.

In our last two blog posts we have shared with you some of the main reasons why personal change initiatives fail, as well as the 7 Key Success Factors for Implementing Personal Change.

Today we are giving you one more tool:  the Living A Determined Life 30-60-90 Day Personal Change Action Plan. This is an easy-to-use template for any personal change, personal development, or self-improvement initiative.


The majority of people will wait another six months to set new personal resolutions and goals. Mostly this is because there is no social protocol or push to do otherwise. You can change this for yourself. Here’s a short video on why it is important to make your Mid-Year Resolutions now: 


Let’s make Mid-Year Resolutions a new ritual by sharing this post and the above video with your friends and family.

And, to help get some momentum behind your own Mid-Year Resolutions, here are two free articles on the Living A Determined Life website to help you create and achieve the personal improvement you desire:



Please help spread the word with hashtag #MidYearResolutions. Together we can help others achieve their personal development goals.

Mid-Year Resolutions. Such a positive and powerful way to being the second half of the year. 

Monday, July 3, 2017

Many Reasons Why We Fail At Personal Change

7 Key Success Factors for Implementing Personal Improvement

The year is half over. For many of us those personal change goals we set back in January are no longer on track. What’s worse is that far too many will wait until next January to set themselves new personal improvement goals.

In fact, despite an abundance of motivation and sense of purpose we originally assign to our New Year’s Resolutions, the large majority of these personal change plans are abandoned within the first 90 days of each year. Research shows that 80% of all New Year’s Resolutions result in failure or are not achieved.

Why is this so? What causes such remarkable low results?

There are numerous reasons behind such dismal outcomes. We believe the main factors that contribute the most to any personal improvement effort failing to achieve the desired outcome are:

  • People do not make the top of mind, each and every day. 
  • People attempt too many initiatives simultaneously. This is particularly true at the start of the year when the typical New Year's Resolutions list reaches double-digit figures. 
  • There is no prioritization, with each resolution being treating as equally important. 
  • An unwillingness to just "say no" to distractions and other initiatives. 
  • No concrete action plans. Just wishful thinking that change will somehow magically happen. 
  • A failure to turn the desired change into a daily habit. 
  • Not allowing others to hold us accountable. Keeping our change initiatives private to ourselves indicates we only have to answer to ourselves. And we are all too good at rationalizing our way out of making change. 
  • Not putting our goals into a quantifiable format. 
  • Not racking our progress or keeping journals to know what is working, and what is not.

 
Get Your Personal Improvement Goals Back on Track

Today, at the midpoint of the year, is a perfect time to review the progress of your personal improvement plans and implement our Mid-Year Resolutions game plan to re-ignite your personal change efforts.

To help you with this, our 7 Key Success Factors for Implementing Personal Change tips will help you overcome the hurdles listed above.

Scientific research shows that it takes on average 66 days for a new behavior to become a new habit. That’s a little over two months!

No wonder so many people give up and abandon their personal improvement plans before reaching success. They typically quit too early in the process as they underestimate the time required to fully inculcate and instill a new behavior or a new change into their daily routines.

Don’t let this happen to you. If you start today, you can have a new set of personal improvement habits in place before summer ends.


Go for it. Start Living A Determined Life by getting your personal improvement goals back on track. 

Please help others discover the power of Mid-Year Resolutions by sharing this post in your social media posts using the hashtag #MidYearResolutions. Many thanks. 

Sunday, July 2, 2017

Mid-Year Resolutions | #MidYearResolutions

Re-Ignite Your Personal and Professional Development Goals



Welcome to the midpoint of 2017. Yep, the year is officially half over.


What’s happened to those New Year’s Resolutions you made a short six months ago? How many are on track? How many have you abandoned?


If you are disappointed in the answers to these questions, don’t be dismayed. Did you know that the failure rate of New Year’s Resolutions is over 80%. In fact, research shows that over 50% of all New Year’s Resolutions have been dropped by mid year.


Most people will wait until the beginning of the next new year to set personal resolutions and goals, simply because there is no social protocol suggesting they do otherwise. You can change this for yourself, as this video explains: 




Help us make Mid-Year Resolutions a new ritual by sharing this blog and the above video with your family and friends.


As for yourself (and them as well), we have two free articles on the Living A Determined Life website to help in making Mid-Year Resolutions:

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These two articles, combined with the Personal Change Action Plan tool that you will also find on our website, will help you kick-start your personal growth and self-development. They will also help you get those New Year’s Resolutions back on track, provided they are still relevant and meaningful to you.


Help spread the word with hashtag #MidYearResolutions.


Together we can help others also achieve their personal development goals. Now isn’t that a positive way to start the second half of the year?

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Make 2017 A Success

Achieving Personal Goals and Staying Motivated 

For many, today is the first "official" day of 2017. The college bowl games are over. Kids are back in school. Most of us are back at our desks and workplaces. 

As such, our attention turns to our personal and professional goals and objectives for 2017.

Here are some tools and tips to help you achieve your personal goals and stay motivated throughout the course of the year, no matter what hurdles or bumps you encounter along the way. 

First, today is the final free day in the Amazon Kindle store for our book Project You: Words of Wisdom. It is the #2 ranked motivational book and the #3 ranked self-help book and you can download a free copy now at: Project You: Words of Wisdom

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Additionally, we have three short articles that will help you overcome the mistakes that many people make when setting New Year's Resolutions and other personal goals: 




And lastly, here's a link to our easy-to-use and very helpful Project You personal change action plan template:


We hope these are all useful in helping to make 2017 your best year yet!

Don't forget: download your personal copy of Project You: Words of Wisdom now! 

Best wishes for continued success in 2017. 

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Leaders Must Be Coaches and Mentors

Leaders Focus on Long-Term Initiatives and the Development of People

In order to develop the skills and talents of your people, you must become a good coach. A good coach will unleash the often hidden talents in a person, while also retaining the capability to provide counsel on wrong decisions and advice on fixing problematic performance issues.
Anyone can become a good coach; yet it takes a very special person to be a good coach.
Both of these seemingly contradictory statements are true.
You certainly already possess some of the attributes of a dynamic coach, and those characteristics that do not come naturally can be learned.
First and foremost, as is true with all teachers, coaches must themselves be active learners. The successful coach takes on the mindset that he or she will never stop learning, no matter how "far they have come." This means developing one’s specific work related skills, and increasing knowledge of general skills and talents through reading, taking formal classes and seminars, and by thoughtful discussion with peers.
When you enter a coaching relationship, you are taking on an individual with a package of talents, weaknesses, pluses, minuses, and probably contradictions. Your job is to nurture and develop that package to the point at which it produces maximum benefit for the organization and the individual himself. 
The aim of all coaching is personal growth so that the subordinate staff member can contribute maximum effort to the organization. Problems and confrontations can be major character builders. Part of the coach’s role is to help the staff member understand how a problem or a failed effort can be turned into a positive learning situation and experience. 
In world-class organizations, we have seen that the coaching function is capable of accomplishing some major organizational objectives. Successful coaching can:
  • Fully orient a new employee to the company and its culture.
  • Instill confidence through teaching general and specific knowledge about the company.
  • Confront troublesome situations.
  • Counsel an employee through rough and uncertain waters on a personal or professional basis.
Coaching accomplishes all of this through the power of the one-on-one relationship. The key is for your own subordinates to catch the excitement of learning when they see that excitement in you.
Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself:
How much of your time is spent on getting things done or focusing on ensuring results?
How much of your time is spent in meetings, on conference calls and answering email?
Add the percentages together. If your answer is greater than 85%, you may have a problem on your hands, because the time remaining is all that you have left to develop your people. 
This answer may also provide you with insights into how you can better prioritize your work activities, perhaps by delegating some of the "doing" work so that you can focus on long-term initiatives and the development of your people.


This article is partially excerpted from our top-ranked personal development book Project You: Living A Determined Life, which is available in Kindle and paperback formats at Amazon.